What Is Love In My Life

What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.

Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.

Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said �Love all�

Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship. The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history of our world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers, parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas everyday. But �love� is not responsible for that. It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy.

In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it.

Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars. Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect.

Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection.

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
William Shakespeare.

Love Is Not A Fight

Love is not a place
to come and go as we please
It's a house we enter in
then commit to never leave

So lock the door behind you
Throw away the key
Work it out together
Let it bring us to our knees

Love is a shelter
in a raging storm
Love is peace
in the middle of a war
And if we try to leave
May God send angels to guard the door
No, Love is not a fight
but its something worth fighting for

To some love is a word
that they can fall into.
But when they're falling out
keeping that word is hard to do

Love is a shelter
in a raging storm
Love is peace
in the middle of a war
And if we try to leave;
May God send angels to guard the door
No, Love is not a fight
but its something worth fighting for

Love will come to save us

If we'll only call
He will ask nothing from us
but demand we give our all

Love is a shelter
in a raging storm
Love is peace
in the middle of a war
And if we try to leave;
May God send angels to guard the door
No, Love is not a fight
but its something worth fighting for.

Cause I Will Fight For You
Would You Fight For Me
It's Worth Fighting For.

This song it was full with meaning~
After i heard this song~
There is a deep feeling inside of me~
That i can't determine it~
It feels like I was in a deep pain~
Where i don't know the reason that i was in pain~
But after i listen to it carefully and deeply~
I understand the meaning~

When we fight for Love~
God is fighting for us too~
And when we ignore His call~
It will hurt Him much more than the hurt we got from the rejection from our partner~
Because He is the one who created us~
He is the one who be by our side when we are in pain and sorrow~
But we don't even care about His feeling,
Because we think it might just a little mistake~
but for Him, Everyone in this world is His Child, even they doesn't believe in Him~

Love is everything
Because He is the one who created Love
Love can be good and also can be bad~
It is up to us how to use it~
Without Love in this world~
We are empty~

Lydia
21/06/2011
06.20 pm

Old Memories n New Memories~

Hey, it has already been 2 or 3 week i didn't post anything here,
Well but at least i posted at my website~
Wanna take a look?
Go to http://jyparklife.webs.com/

What i gonna wrote this time will be a lil emotional and mature,
Old memories, that is what people like to remember
But if the memories was totally screwed, will you remember it?
But almost everyone can't let go of the old memories,
Because they aren't ready for something that more new and adventure in the future.
But do you guys ever think
The old memories might bring happiness or maybe unhappy life to you?
For me, i rather lost my memories.
I don't want to remember something that will hurt myself
Because it wasn''t only hurting me but it might include my brother as well
He might not understand what i meant right now
But 弟弟 you'll get it in no time~

But what about new memories?
I know i wasn't good enough to make this kind of speech~
But to tell the truth, i would choose the future rather than the past
Because, past was past and there is still a long waiting for us there in the future
We can choose to make beautiful memories or maybe a sad memories
Everything was on our hand actually
It is just up to us to decide
Whether the decision was right or wrong
It has already been done
We can only follow the flow of life

wow~!
am i crazy?
Yes i am~
Because i was getting weird and weirder day by day~

Lydia
21/06/2011
07.21 am

Are you there?

Will you be there for me?
That's the question that i often asked myself when i was alone and lonely
Did everything happend because of myself or it was destined?

Most of the people in this world must be saying that i was crazy if they saw this~
A 16 years old girl will have this kind of trouble, well it wasn't anything to me anymore~
It was already a part in my life, been lonely and also been in a up side down life~
It doesn't matter much for me to keep it on but sometimes i was really tired with this kind of life~
A ordinary life or maybe an extraordinary life for others~

I never thought of getting more and more better in my own world~
Truly i say, i wasn't ready for everything that i going to face in the future or maybe in a while more~
Sometimes a human also need a rest other than sleeping~
You guys must be laughing right now an i right?
It was okay for me~

Is it a poison to listen to me even once?
Would it kill if you listen to me even once?
Will it really make you feel bad if you listen to me?
Is it because i was a girl a 16 years old girl~
An unmature gurl......

But in my opinion an unmuture girl is having a trouble will be a mature girl~
But in others eyes she will always be unmature because she wanted other to notice her~
Is it wrong to have other noticing me?
Is it awful?
Is it bad of painful to understand me?

Do you guys make friends with me because of my atitiude?
Or it is because of other reason that i myself doesn't know~!

It is up to you guys to think whatever you like~
But i tell you guys something, i am a girl that won't change myself for other people needs~

Lydia~

Live On Forever

It's ridiculous how selfish we all can be and how much we take our lives for granted when people like Aya are out there optimistically being unselfish and trying to figure out what they can do for others. She was an amazing and inspirational person. Maybe she was given that disease because God knew she would use it to change the world. If you can even help the life of one other person, isn't that amazing?

**

I miss you so much~!!!!!!
I hope that i can really see you right now~~
OMG god help me~!!!!
I'm helpless in this love flow that i create myself~!!!!!

Today i wrote something special~!

This is something special i wanted to share

with you all~!

Well i wrote again today~!

I was almost crazy because of this...

keke~!
this is my ordinary life and also my private life story~!

Would you all wanted to know what have i written?

Hehe(evil smile)

Wait till i prepared to spill it out~!

.......................................................................

Lydia 

9/4/2011

Car Operating System!@@

Bill's company made software to run a car. 
Bill was taking a test ride of the car. Suddenly a truck came from opposite side. 



Bill pressed ctrl+b to apply brakes. 
A pop-up window appeared asking, "Are you sure you really want to stop?" 
Before Bill could enter "Yes", there was a crash and the car caught fire.



In panic Bill forgot the password to open the door. 
He started shouting "F1! F1!" but there was no computer professional present there to understand his screams. 



Then he tried to come out through the car window-pane. 
A message appeared on the screen, "An illegal function is performed. 
All the window-panes of the car will be closed." Poor Bill died.



Messengers of death took away his soul and said to him, "You have never ever performed any good deeds in your life. You always stole the code from others. We are going to send you to hell."



Bill pleaded, "I am ready to go to hell but do provide me a computer, please." 
Messengers of death smiled inwardly and permitted him a computer, but with no Alt, Ctrl and Delete keys on the keyboard.

I Cant Hear You!@@

Charlie was responsible for taking up the offerings at a local church. One Sunday, after the service, the priest counted the money and found there was less than anticipated, given the size of the congregation. He took Charlie aside and questioned him.

Charlie said that he did not take any of the offerings.



The priest questioned him again and again and Charlie continued to insist that he did not take any of the offerings. So, the priest told Charlie to get into the confessional, which he did.

The priest then asked him again, "Charlie, did you take any of the offering?" This time, Charlie replied, "I can't hear you."



The priest asked Charlie the same question several times and Charlie would always reply, "I can't hear you."

Finally, the priest yelled, "CHARLIE, DID YOU TAKE ANY OF THE OFFERING?"

Again, the reply was, "I can't hear you."



The priest was now beginning to get angry, so he came out of the confessional and said to Charlie, "Trade places with me and you can ask me a question."

So, they traded places and Charlie asked, "Is it true that you and my wife are having an affair?"



To which the priest replied, "By golly, you’re right, you can't hear in here!"

Valuable Banking

Rajiv and Mona are flying to Australia for a two-week vacation to celebrate their 40th anniversary.

Suddenly, over the public address system, the Captain announces, " Ladies and Gentlemen, I am afraid I have some very bad news.


Our engines have ceased functioning and we will attempt an emergency landing. Luckily, I see an uncharted island below us and we should be able to land on the beach. However, the odds are that we may never be rescued and will have to live on the island for the rest of our lives!"


Thanks to the skill of the flight crew, the plane lands safely on the island.

An hour later Rajiv turns to his wife and asks, "Mona, did we pay our Rs 5lakh deposit cheque yet to Bank?"


" No, sweetheart," she responds.

Rajiv, still shaken from the crash landing, then asks, "Mona, did we pay our Bank Master card yet?"


"Oh no! I'm sorry. I forgot to send the cheque," she says.

"One last thing, Mona. Did you remember to send cheques for the auto loan to them too this month?" he asks.


"Oh, forgive me, Rajiv," begged Mona. "I didn't send that one, either."

Rajiv grabs her and gives her the biggest hug in 40 years. Mona pulls away and asks him, "So, why did you hug me?"


Rajiv answers, "They'll find us!!!!"