What Is Love In My Life

What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.

Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.

Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said �Love all�

Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship. The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history of our world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers, parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas everyday. But �love� is not responsible for that. It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy.

In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it.

Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars. Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect.

Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection.

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
William Shakespeare.

Love Is Not A Fight

Love is not a place
to come and go as we please
It's a house we enter in
then commit to never leave

So lock the door behind you
Throw away the key
Work it out together
Let it bring us to our knees

Love is a shelter
in a raging storm
Love is peace
in the middle of a war
And if we try to leave
May God send angels to guard the door
No, Love is not a fight
but its something worth fighting for

To some love is a word
that they can fall into.
But when they're falling out
keeping that word is hard to do

Love is a shelter
in a raging storm
Love is peace
in the middle of a war
And if we try to leave;
May God send angels to guard the door
No, Love is not a fight
but its something worth fighting for

Love will come to save us

If we'll only call
He will ask nothing from us
but demand we give our all

Love is a shelter
in a raging storm
Love is peace
in the middle of a war
And if we try to leave;
May God send angels to guard the door
No, Love is not a fight
but its something worth fighting for.

Cause I Will Fight For You
Would You Fight For Me
It's Worth Fighting For.

This song it was full with meaning~
After i heard this song~
There is a deep feeling inside of me~
That i can't determine it~
It feels like I was in a deep pain~
Where i don't know the reason that i was in pain~
But after i listen to it carefully and deeply~
I understand the meaning~

When we fight for Love~
God is fighting for us too~
And when we ignore His call~
It will hurt Him much more than the hurt we got from the rejection from our partner~
Because He is the one who created us~
He is the one who be by our side when we are in pain and sorrow~
But we don't even care about His feeling,
Because we think it might just a little mistake~
but for Him, Everyone in this world is His Child, even they doesn't believe in Him~

Love is everything
Because He is the one who created Love
Love can be good and also can be bad~
It is up to us how to use it~
Without Love in this world~
We are empty~

Lydia
21/06/2011
06.20 pm

Old Memories n New Memories~

Hey, it has already been 2 or 3 week i didn't post anything here,
Well but at least i posted at my website~
Wanna take a look?
Go to http://jyparklife.webs.com/

What i gonna wrote this time will be a lil emotional and mature,
Old memories, that is what people like to remember
But if the memories was totally screwed, will you remember it?
But almost everyone can't let go of the old memories,
Because they aren't ready for something that more new and adventure in the future.
But do you guys ever think
The old memories might bring happiness or maybe unhappy life to you?
For me, i rather lost my memories.
I don't want to remember something that will hurt myself
Because it wasn''t only hurting me but it might include my brother as well
He might not understand what i meant right now
But 弟弟 you'll get it in no time~

But what about new memories?
I know i wasn't good enough to make this kind of speech~
But to tell the truth, i would choose the future rather than the past
Because, past was past and there is still a long waiting for us there in the future
We can choose to make beautiful memories or maybe a sad memories
Everything was on our hand actually
It is just up to us to decide
Whether the decision was right or wrong
It has already been done
We can only follow the flow of life

wow~!
am i crazy?
Yes i am~
Because i was getting weird and weirder day by day~

Lydia
21/06/2011
07.21 am